Hey all. 43 mwm from the SW Burbs of Chicago. Big burly dad bod type. Shaved head tattoos beard. Veteran and spent 20 years working as a bouncer. 6’4 280 so if big boys aren’t for you sorry not sorry. But I do work a blue collar grunt job, just a bit of a belly is all. I do have pics to exchange. Married almost 15 years to a narcissist who used to be my best friend but who has become nothing more than a negative nag. I raised 2 kids who weren’t my own and 1 that is and I still can’t get the time of day for a lay lol. But like a dummy I don’t want a divorce, I want to find someone localish(Illinois, WI, IN) that I can chat with and establish a relationship with and when the time is right take the next step to something physical. Someone who is in a situation like me with a spouse who doesn’t appreciate them and all their good qualities. Someone who may or may not have kids but who understands all that comes with them( time and responsibilities). I want to find someone who cares and wants me because I am dying to do the same. To find that spark that feeling again. I need that. Message me if you’re interested and hopefully I stick out from all the rest