This could go a couple ways so be direct in what you're looking for. Either Chat or messages are fine.

I've been the attentive husband with a spouse that didn't appreciate me. Cared for the kids, worked, helped out at home (cleaning, laundry, cooking, shopping) only to get ignored . This lead to a dead bedroom even though I was always open to pleasing. I've an open mind and known there are creative ways to have fun and appreciate your partner.

I've been snipped for a couple years now and am not looking to have anymore kids but wondered if there was anyone looking for some fun. Perhaps mentally you imagine I'm still intact.

Me: 43, 5' 11" 180-185# High libido. Dad bod but working on trimming up. Eating healthy and staying active is important . Blue eyes, straight teeth, short hair, tight ass. Some chest hair and trimmed/scaped where it counts. I like to pleasure and I'll work to make you cum but I like also appreciate receiving too. No tats or piercings so I appear pretty straight edge, the coach dad, dilfy. Most people get to see my professional side but few get to see my dirty mind. I'm D&DF and hygiene is important. No smoking of any kind either

You: Female 22 , 4'11" High/Average Libido. Sane. Book nerd, church girl/wife, accountant, lawyer, hr professional/manager, soccer/hockey mom, pre-med/law/dental/vet are my vibe in public but submissive/sexual/freaky behind closed doors. Prefer to keep your reddit interactions private. Ideally you take care of yourself as well. I'm not perfect so I don't expect you to be either, but HWP is preferable. Mombod and curvy ladies are encouraged if you're confident. If you've got or are considering a separate NSFW/spicy Reddit account for fun then move to the front of the line. ***Ideal if you're more innocent looking on the outside too despite what goes on in your mind . Don't mind hidden tats and piercings but not big on chest or face piercings and tats. But don't be shy and say hi, I have an open mind to new things.

Want a healthy mix of innuendos and intellectual conversation. Flirtation and confidence are important also. You should not be shy about what you're looking for, if you can't communicate what you like, want, are open to them this won't work. What type of interaction this becomes is open and depends on what you're interested in and we can figure it out from there.

So message me and tell me what you're looking for and what stood out in my post. Tell me about you, share a sfw pic that proves you're local and in southern WI or NW Chicago Burbs. Feel free to ask questions.