Heey all,

While I found this subreddit and went through it, I realised something. Cheating is constantly on my mind. Now let me explain I never have really cheated before never touched another than my girlfriend. But I do need more than she can give me.

Let me introduce myself and my situation a little. I’m a 28 year old guy who is in a realistisch for almost 4 years now. We live together and I genuinely love this woman. But the sex isn’t great when it’s there at all. We barely do anything anymore and I have basically this insane sex drive who needs attention multiple times a day. And she well she is basically fine once every week if I’m lucky. I tried so much spending more time with her, taking away her stressful tasks, eating her out all the time out of no where and talk with her about it and about my needs. But she simply can not bring her body to allow it.

So that is where all the cheating fantasies come in. And where I seek some distractions online on Reddit and other apps.

Anyone any advice? Should I find myself another who satisfy my needs? Or are there other options?