Mid 40s guy in an east coast beach city.. What an experience the past few months have been. If you told 10 year ago me that I'd be embracing this lifestyle, he'd never belive it. But here we are.

Super fast backstory. 10 year marriage has gone dry. The rest is fine. Well, it was til the well dried up. Vaginal sex is painful for her now. She has zero interest in anal or oral. After 1 year of being denied, frustrated arguments, and lots of longer than needed showers, we had THE argument. Weither she meant it or not, I was told "I'm tired of hearing it. Go do what the fuck you want to do if you gotta. Leave me alone about it already.."

Fast forward a few months.. Marriage is better than it's ever been. We laugh again, it's fun. No more argument. I don't come home already angry. It's almost better than it's ever been. We still aren't intimate. But I quit asking for it.

I met a cute little ray of sunshine a few weeks after "the argument" because I finally had had enuf. She was in similar situation. Hub loves his xbox. We clicked. 4 weeks of pure joy and lust. Then her hub got transfered and she's gone. We had so much fun. The texts, talking trash bout our spouses while we have sex, the sexy videos, cheap hotels, gym parking lots.. all of it! Now she's gone. Im a little sad lol.. 🤷‍♂️ It was great while it lasted. I realzed from her, I definitely am a part of this life now. I feel better at home cuz im not frustrated and hitting dead ends. I just want someone who wants to play with me as much as I want to play with them.. who doesn't want that? Wonder who the next lil ray of sunshine will be.. whoever she is, this is gonna be amazing all over again..