One of the most asked questions I get when I’m chatting with someone is “How did you end up cheating?” Or “What made you do it?”

So to answer that question here’s the beginning of this adventure:

[TLDR: My first BF, who took my virginity, cheated on me. On a trip abroad, I decided to do the same. It has never been the same afterwards 😊]

Back when I was about 17 or 18, I was in a steady relationship with my first boyfriend for about 2 years. He was my first boyfriend and he took my virginity but I never asked if I was his.

At this point in our relationship, I was very much “in-love” and tried not to entertain thoughts that he might be dating me for my money (technically my family is more financially stable than his). I was basically paying for almost everything; our dates, shopping, and his excursion with his friends. I also paid for the motel/hotel when we go out to have sex which much almost averaging 3-4 times a week.

He was pretty much a party boy and goes out bar-hopping on weekends while I pretty much just stayed at home and waits for him to call in the early hours of the next morning he comes home. Even during those days, my sex drive was pretty much up there. I would watch porn, read eroticas and play with myself during those waiting nights.

It was during one of his bar-hopping nights where a friend of mine spotted him making out and grinding with a girl. She told me what she saw but I didn’t believe. Unlucky for him, a different friend also saw him at another bar making out with another girl. My friend took a video before confronting him anout what he saw. My exBF told him not to tell me. My friend just agreed with him but had already sent me the photo and told me already. My friend also noticed that my ex and the girl he was kissing took the same cab when they left. I was wrecked.

The following day we saw each other. I noticed that my ex was wearing the same clothes from photo sent to me and he smelled like the soap given at the hotel we frequented. We had sex that day so I saw kiss marks on his body. He said it was from the last time we had sex and tried to change the subject. I never confronted him about what I know.

For that week I found sites where I can have nsfw chats and video call with other people, sites where I can arrange meetups and watched cheating porn. I had an upcoming trip abroad so I looked for people in that area looking for hookups. I chatted with the person and decided that I would get my revenge by cheating on my ex.

One thing I am thankful for my ex will probably be this. Without his actions, I would never have discovered the thrill of cheating. I will never look back.