Even though I have this fetish, I still view cheating as an immoral, evil act. I look down on women who cheat and don't really give them much respect. I treat them like worthless whores, because cheaters don't deserve any better. They're traitors and trash.

But ironically, I think this is exactly what a lot of these women want. They're not looking to get treated well by a respectful man, they want a scumbag to spit on their marriage and treat them like cheap, easy pussy.

It's almost like I see myself as justified for mistreating a cheating wife. It's morally unacceptable to cheat, but it's morally acceptable to punish a cheater. It's just that punishment sometimes takes the form of degrading some poor husband's wife without him knowing. But I'm not the one cheating so it's her fault.