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She (28) has begged me to be okay with her talking to one of her exes as friends. The two only stopped living together once we met and started dating, she was in hotel on holiday when we met and now lives with me.
I feel that she is cheating since she still calls her ex the pet name given when they were dating. I do not feel comfortable with this at all.
Am I overreacting? I feel like I am going to throw up from my heart pounding and my body shaking. I had to walk out since I did not want to get into a fight.
I told her that I love her still and left the house a few minutes ago. I do not know how to feel.
No youâre not overreacting. Very rarely can exâs maintain friendship relationships after a romantic relationship. If they could they likely wouldnât have broke up. They generally only stay âconnectedâ because thereâs an emotional and/or sexual âitchâ that they scratch for each other.
Plus - your feelings about this should outweigh her desire to stay connected with an ex. So that tells you where she values yâallâs relationship.
Also based on the data you have it isnât cheating, itâs just super inappropriate. Iâd demand she cut it off or leave.
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