Been with this woman since 2017 and we were both in highscool. Finally we married about a year and a half ago and just 4 days ago, right before she left to go out of state to visit her dad, i opened her Snapchat when she was asleep cause i had a gut wrenching feeling something was off and oh wow what a surprise she loves snapping dudes. I didn’t see any nudes per se but there were deep conversations and photos that I obviously could no longer see but there was a photo of her in barely any clothes but still covered.. i confronted her and she begged me to stay, i left the house (i live her family) with my work clothes and just staying away while she’s in a different state.

I haven’t cried and idek if i feel sad but i just occasionally feel sick, like i feel so betrayed and hurt that it’s physically hurting my stomach and body. I’m 24 she’s 23. Thankfully no kids. Just feeling very lost. I just found this subreddit and reading these posts kinda makes me less alone in the shared pain