Update post 4 months:

I wanted to express my gratitude to those people that helped me keep my cool and provide great advice. So after reading everyone’s comments I decided to block all social media and not give her any attention. I focused on myself. My lease ended and I moved my self into another apartment building. I started running and reading self help books and picked up new hobby Sailing.

It was incredibly hard as each day I was waking up with anger and resentment towards her. However; last week or so I have woken up and felt excited about my day. Furthermore, my life has turned around a lot as I started a new job (remote) and went exploring and backpacking. And as of yesterday I purchased my first sailboat, so I will be sailing more in the future. There are some instances where I think of her as if I hear songs from our favorite artist or when the new season of tv show that we watched dropped. But now as I think of these instances; I am getting less angry or upset. I have realized that I was really lucky not to be married with this person and that I feel more freedom and not constant panic of how to please her and make her happy. Overall; I have started to move past this phase of my life. I have met and started conversations with women that I met through social interactions; so we will see how that goes but I am in no rush as I like spending time by myself. Anyway thanks everyone!

PS: I transferred all the photos and text of her cheating out of my phone. She has attempted to contact me however I have blocked her. I don’t care what she does on instagram or social media.

So my Fiance cheated on me. We broke up and she moved out to her parents home. Now I cut off all contact; but recently one of my friend reached out after watching her instagram story. Apparently in the instagram stories; she is acting like she is victim and that she had gone through tremendous adversities and how she is so strong to be moving forward. I honestly wouldn’t care really; but it annoyed me how this person shattered our entire lives and future and now is acting like she is the victim. There is a part of me that wants to expose all her lies by posting all the text messages and Snapchat conversations (I have all the pictures of them) I could ruin her but I would hate myself for it. How do I move forward without this anger and not let is consume me?

You can read the previous post below.

https://www.reddit.com/r/CheatedOn/s/h5mTSJ0K7Y