Hey guys, need some advice. I'm with a girl who is an absolute freak. Having some of the best sex of my life. The downside, she's a big cheater. I mean like 8-10 times in a span of 8-9 months. Now she comes clean and tells me what's up, always says she's going to stop but one look at messenger kinda says it all that she won't. I'm a bit stuck.

Do I care it's happening, absolutely. Definitely makes me jealous and angry and a major turn off. Sometimes I'll even wait to have sex a week or so after I think it happens (going on gut instincts). It sucks because I'm typically laid back and usually know what it is in these situations (just sex). Unfortunately I got my emotions tangled up and she's running the game. I still want to have fun with this chick but she is doubling down on my emotions because she's discovered my weakness and insecurities.

How I'm coping. Currently doing a bit of seperation, giving myself some distance to work on myself (exercise, quit bad habits, build up confidence). Watching a ton of youtube videos on building up confidence and managing relationships (I def was blindsided getting into this relationship). I definitely have options, wish it was easy for me to break this off I've been going out building up my pool of women. I just really really enjoy the physicality of this relationship and the drama has been somewhat new and entertaining (it does get old though).

Where I'm struggling. My sex game is good but not great, she wants sex every single day if not twice a day. I've been dropping the ball and spreading this out to every other day or every 2-3 days, I really want to take more advantage of this situation. Emotional, she's constantly dropping "i love yous", "I'm going to change", "I wanna be just yours", "We're going to make this work"..... It's been super difficult emotional wise. It bothers me she's painting a picture of a future together but for what?

Background. Been "dating" on and off for 7-8 months. Moved in together for past 4 months. Literally spent everyday together and when her days weren't filled with work she'd come to my work. I cover most expenses, rent ($600/month, cheapest apartment I could possibly find), sometimes food and sometimes activities. She works and covers food most of the time. I never spoil her with hardly any gifts or presents (actually none I can really think of). I'm really not putting much into this even though I would love to go full body sometimes and make her super happy. I'm not fulfilling her emotionally, physically but mainly mentally. I really don't see why she is sticking so hard to me when she has soo many other options that would cater to all her needs and some. It's really not adding up, I get a super hot, super freaky, rebellious girl who can get money, housing, better sex from anyone she wants with far less effort but yet she's like attached to me and cries and cries and cries anytime I try to leave or break it off.

I don't get it guys, it's a mindfuck. She gives me all her attention, all her time, all the sex I could ever ask for but in return I don't get the loyalty, respect and commitment which is something I'd like to have but I do get that from mostly everyone else but her. I also do try to play it safe as possible, avoiding being baby trapped and use protection where needed. What's everyone's best advice? How long do I let this run out for? Where do I draw the lines and when should I cut it off? How should I manage this after the breakup? Keep her as a side chick, stay friends perhaps? She's typically the one doing the breaking up in ALL of her relationships so me cutting it off would be a first for her. Some relationship gurus please drop some golden advice on how I can take full advantage of this situation without accidentally getting heartbroken.