It’s been about a year since I last posted. You can read my original post on my profile, where I shared what everyday play looked like two weeks before my wedding with my then fiancée, now wife.

I (m25) and my wife (f26) recently had our first anniversary, and what a good kinky year it has been. The switch dynamic we had is still going strong, now with a bit of a twist. As of the last month or so, I am locked pretty much any time we’re not having sex. On average, about 5-7 days per week.

The positive change in our relationship dynamic since making this change a month ago has been obvious to us both. Both of our orgasms are more intense, I pay extremely close attention to her needs, and I don’t have to feel guilty for masturbating without her permission. (This has been a game changer as someone who was a daily jerker since puberty.)

It has also made our sexual interactions more interesting, especially when it comes to being daring in public. In terms of risqué/fun situations the cage has presented over the past year, offhand I can think of:

• Her openly wearing the key on a necklace out to dinner with friends
• Receiving an over the cage ‘blowjob’ while kayaking on a busy lake
• While on vacation, our longtime mutual friend started to walk in on my wife sitting on my face, while I wore nothing but the cage (still not convinced she didn’t see anything based off the smirks, despite what she tells me)
• My cage making a loud ass knock against the toilet seat in my office bathroom

I’ve been rocking a knockoff Cobra small for awhile now, and recently we decided it was time for an upgrade to the newer cobra with the wider ring. Truthfully, even the size small is a bit roomy for me at times. So I knew it’s time to downsize a bit. The best part was how she smirked when she asked “what size?” while browsing Amazon, and I had to reply “nano”. New cage should arrive in less than a week.

I know some might find this a bit boring or mundane, but I just wanted to share what everyday play looks like for a young married couple in the Midwest. Sure, sometimes there’s boring days where I’m in no mood to be in the cage. But most other days, I get to lust after my wife like we’re still 16. I love what chastity has done for my relationship with my wife, and I’m excited to see where year two of marriage takes us.