I got a very strong faszination for permanent chastity. But to me, its not about chastity cages, permanent locks and so on. I never used chastity devices for my chastity.

To me, its about the psychology behind it. Usually, submissives are rewarded with orgasms, get them out of mercy or are allowed to orgasm by special terms (by time intervals for example). This might be one orgasm each week, or one orgasm each year.

But permanent denial is different. Its not just long term denial or denial with impossible conditions. Its the absolute denial. No matter how good the sub behaves, no matter how much time passes, no matter how much the sub suffers, the orgasm is never an option, there is no hope for an orgasm.

To me, this doesnt require super secure chastity devices or super cruel humiliation. Its all about trust and promise. Sacraficing the own orgasm. Not just delay it or hope to be rewarded with orgasm, but sacraficing it, fully aware that its no option ever.

I love what this does with the mind of both partners. Of cause, accidents might happen, but its still different, because they are always accidents, there is no official chance to ever orgasm.

Some people say that its important to leave a small hope to motivate the submissive. I never felt like that. Knowing my domme is killing every hope of ever being allowed to orgasm has always been a huge turn on and motivator to me.

Its all about psychology, its a very intense thing. Anyone else feels like this?