There have been plenty of posts attacking men and women in the past few weeks (they always seem to be posted around weekends, I've noticed). We understand that you may want to discuss frustrations and poor experiences on the dating and courtship market - that's what this sub is, in part, for. But please be charitable in your delivery and how you say things.

We're a pretty laissez-faire mod team, but cursing out and harassing other users is unacceptable and breaks Rule 1. Attacking an entire sex almost surely violates Rule 4. We're Catholics, first and foremost. You can provide arguments and ideas without needing to go on personal attacks on people, or denigrating an entire sex. In addition, someone else cursing you out doesn't mean you get revenge and do the same to them.

Also, if there are any comments you think break the rules, please DM us a link to the specific infraction. We can immediately see reports on posts, but we may sometimes miss comment reports. In addition, DMing us specific links allows us to make quick evaluations, whereas just messaging us and saying a user is breaking the rules can be pretty unclear at times. We rarely, if ever, honor random requests to ban a user (and we've received quite a few messages asking for a specific user to be banned with little explanation why, let alone links to their infractions).

Just a heads-up.