Yes, I manage the Matchmaker Forms, and thank you for all the interest! I receive a lot of messages about it, asking how it works, and people wonder when the next Form will be available.

But just to reiterate what I said when we first started the Forms: they are not substitutes for the Matchmaking Threads! The Threads are our primary service that has been running for years, and which has yielded numerous relationships and even a few marriages (sort by top all time). This is why the Threads are always the top sticky, and the Forms are the bottom sticky. In addition, the Threads are available 24/7 and refreshed each month, while the Forms are available according to my schedule.

Matchmaker Form: You sign up, and we match you 1-on-1, if feasible (based on your preferences but, mainly, the sex ratio).

Matchmaking Thread: You post about yourself on the thread corresponding to your sex, then go on the other thread and see whoever catches your interest. If a person does, then you message them. We are completely uninvolved in this process, except for creating the threads themselves.

They are two distinct, separate services we provide. So if you struck out on the Form, then go on the Threads! And if you posted on the Thread but are receiving overwhelming numbers of messages, then sign up for the Form so you can focus on one person.

Hope this clarifies things!