I’ve (F30) been single for a long time. Ang hirap makahanap ng ka same page in life. At dahil sa mga hookup culture and mga failed dating stages ko, parang na rewire na yata yung utak ko. Haha.

I am dating a guy na akala ko sex lang habol sakin. He proved na di lang yun gusto nya and he really wants to have a relationship with me. Kaso ako, on the otherhand doesn’t know how to be a girlfriend? Hahaha. I give him space, time and let him do whatever he wants. He has time for his hobbies and he’s thankful for that. Mas pala update nga sya kaysa sakin. I ask for his time kapag I want to pero he makes sure to do his responsibilities sakin like ihatid and sunduin ako kung papasok akong office, etc. Ako yung di alam kung anong kailangan kong gawin for him. Haha.

Any advice sa kung paano maging girlfriend? Lol. Not sure kung making sense ako pero parang tingin ko di ako ready mentally to become a gf kasi I instilled in my mind na all those who’ll come will eventually leave me. Kaya etong someone who’s staying medyo nahihirapan ako mag adjust (?) or mag adapt. Aaaahhh help.