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Saw an attractive guy in the gym today… not typically gym boy attractive, but really attractive to me. I’d love to have the balls to go up and say something… but what the heck do you say?! We were going totally different workouts, it’s not like I could use that. I’d be afraid I’d say Hi, and then a long awkward pause!! Followed by the fear that’s he’s not even single and I feel silly. Any opinions/advice? Any girls here who have done it before?!
Edit to add: Just out of interest… do men feel hesitant about going up to ladies in the same way?
Like he has his eyes closed doing bench presses. Completes set, opens them and has OP’s smiling face looking down at him?
No don’t. There’s some great advice above, chief of which seems to be smiling and asking a question about him / his fitness that will probably lead to a multiple sentence response. E.g. ‘Are you training because you’re in a sports team?’ People love it if you take interest in them. Your coming here to ask about this is very cute. Go for it!
Edit: don’t necessarily go with the above advice ‘Show him your bangers’.
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Good idea, but maybe leave out the: ‘What’s the worst that could happen?’