I'm a super busy lady, single Mom (solo parent), I live with my single Dad and my 11 year old half brother I'm helping take care of, I work, I go to school, I don't really have a social life and don't really want one. People take too much time and energy when I already don't have enough time and energy as it is. I'm happy just to chit chat at the office or whatever. I seriously do not have time for dating or romance, and the thought of the efforts I'd have to go to give me a headache.

And then my body says, "hey did you know that you are a healthy, sexually active female with a perfectly functioning sex drive? Oh you forgot? Let me remind you!"

And then I can't focus on anything and I'm uncomfortable all the time and blah blah blah. Grrrrr.

TLDR; My body and brain are disagreeing on the definition of "need" and I just wish they'd quit already.