I recently moved with my girlfriend to a big city. I had been here for about 2 months prior for work so it wasn’t exactly brand new. However, I moved from a cool beach town which I am missing like crazy. I miss the fresh air, the peace, my car, the ocean and most of all the simplicity.

We have been here together for nearly a month now and it just feels like I’ve lost a little spark of happiness in me because deep down I know this isn’t my place. I did make the decision to come here so I have to remember that. I just keep thinking about when we can go back, how we would go back, where we would live and jobs etc. I’m always thinking about that and into the future.

My current plan was to give this city another few months and if I still feel like that, talk/tell my girlfriend that’s what I want to do.

Any advice?