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I genuinely have no idea. I see myself as awkward and not very good socially but someone I hang out with at club meetings occasionally said that he was jealous of my natural charisma. However he's significantly more social than me so I have no idea what he's getting at. I would ask him but it's been like a week so the opportunity is lone gone. What do you all think he might mean?
Charisma is made up of a bunch of things
- Practical intelligence (if you think about something you can say it in an approachable and concise way)
- Body language
- Looks
- Vocal pattern
- Confidence
You likely move and talk in a way that makes people want to listen. You might be awkward, but if you mix enough other things together "Awkward" becomes "pleasant"/"restrained"/"approachable"/"politely feminine" rather than "sketchy"/"weird"/"disquieting"/"trying to hide something".
Pick up some sort of performing or movement-based hobby. It'll massively boost your ability to take care of your natural gifts while also making you more willing to. Flow arts, bachata or archery come to mind.
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Exactly. You just-about-never see models utilizing their connections and experience to become actors despite that being just about the most obvious way to keep making stacks. There's this one German ex-model who became a TV presenter but aside from that they either end up promoting brands or retire in comparatively (it's obviously still a really profitable thing to get into) modest conditions for a celebrity.
Being hot is a force multiplier but it's not a substitute.