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Let's talk about how you all behave on dating apps! I'm super new to dating in general (and I'm 25 ouch) and decided to try my luck on some apps. I'm generally a very shy and reserved person who tries not to bother a soul but that won't fly when you want to date people. I recently moved out and I'm finally feeling somewhat confident to take this on, and I've even been getting some matches. But how do y'all actually talk on apps? And go on dates?
And also, very important question, do you talk to multiple people at once it you're also setting dates? What if a cute person matches while you already set up a date with someone else? What if they're cuter even? And do you keep it casual or more formal? I've a feeling most convos I have stay quite formal, but that may be the right or wrong person matching lol. Or do you just go straight to the point and open up with a plan for a date? And what works best in your opinion or experience?
male
25
shy
Apps aren't going to be worth your time. If you'd been a 25 year old in 2014 sure but nowadays the pool is not favorable for your kind of conditions.
IF you want to pursue that, look into what people (real or fictional) you admire make you admire them and talk about these traits or pursuits in some way. When you're on the shy side and talking via text trying to go the value & interest route tends to work better. Always use the strongest tool in your arsenal. Give yourself the opportunity to become passionate by playing to your own needs and people will see you as authentic and interesting significantly more easily. Don't get lost in details but let your passion show.
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