I have been my grandmothers live in caregiver for 4 years. She has always had to be the center of attention. It became 10x worse when my mom (her daughter) was dying of cancer. Giving me a hard time for spending time with my mom as she was “more sick” and needed me home. She does all her own ADLs and my son was here. She cried told everyone all her family died, I’m like hello who has been here because no one helps me. She purposely does things like not use her Walker because it upsets me (that’s how she fell and broke her hip not using her Walker) She calls family members tells them I’m nasty. I decided to move away and put her in assisted living. She says she is not leaving her house. (It’s my house I own it and let her live with me) every tiny thing she does annoys me now. I’m grieving the loss of my Mom and my boyfriend who died a few weeks apart. My friends have tried talking to her and she feeds off the attention. On one hand if she dies I’ll feel guilty because I avoid talking to her on the other I’m tired of being treated this way (I see now why my mom wouldn’t let her live with her). Growing up she was the best grandmother ever but now having to deal with her every day I’ve become resentful. Not sure what else to do but pack my stuff find her a place and go back to being a granddaughter.