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I had been my dads caregiver for about a year. He had a stroke and half of his body wasnt moving. Until his health deteriorates and He died last month.
How do you adjust with life after being handsfull with caregiving, work, family and kids 24x7.
Does it have a time frame how long should you adjust?
Sometimes i feel useless. Sometimes i feel what i did wasnt enough, thats why he died. I feel restless even if i dont have anything to do. Sometimes I am sad.
Iām sorry for your loss š I took care of my dad in his home when he had hospice. It was a difficult transition after he passed. I noticed it took some time for my body to adjust. He took medication every two hours and my body was still use to that schedule.
We do the best we can to take care of them and just the simple fact that you were there for him is more then enough!
Let your body rest and when your ready decide what you want to do next with your time.
He was lucky to have you! Not everyone has that level of support in difficult times.
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