Hi all we are K&E a Canberra Couple and we have been running private parties for our friends for the last 4 years. We have been on reddit for a while and we have a little advice for those who choose to take it.

If you are a couple taking their first step doing that without understanding the scene and having your communication as a couple agreed and understood is fraught with danger. Find genuine people to discuss the lifestyle with and educate yourselves and determine your agreed boundaries before you start. Understand you may need to provide a photo of yourselves together to verify with couples/ladies or get an invite to a party (we ask for a face pic before a first non play meeting post that people receive their invite to a party.) If someone asks you for a xxx /nude pic straight away that's a huge red flag.

Ladies its a fun world out there but watch out for scams never send xxx pics and always do a face meet (no play) before organising a play date. Establish limits, a safe environment and determine what are the no gos for you

Guys let's face it couples and ladies will find you but there are some things you can do to improve your chances. Messaging 1. Have a clearly written polite ad that highlights your best qualities and is as detailed as you can. 2. Clear face pic (you won't get anywhere without one. 3. Write a clear specific message when messaging someone. Read their message/ad/profile first and address key points 4. Don't pretend to be something you are not eg guys pretending to be couples.if it blows up in your face your name will be mud in the community.you will never get invited to a party

Happy to chat to anyone, but guys we are not going to get back to you as there are just too many if you. K&E