Reddit is my only go-to for this. Have had successes here before; next time is the charm, right!

Let's a little extra spice in our lives, together. Yes, I want to have interesting and fun conversations with you but hot and passionate sex too. I would love to let my guard down and relax around you, and I offer the same to you. 

Fact from day to day life (and with my past APs) - I find a range of women attractive, tall to short (not less than 5' though coz I am 6' ), average to fit, slim to curvy, big, and across race/ethnicities, you get the gist. My APs have been wildly different too and we/I enjoyed the connect (mental and physical) . All to say that attraction is subjective and personality > looks any time (agree that looks play a role too even if minor). You may have a different opinion, preferences, deal breakers, all of which we can talk about. Frequent travellers to TO are welcome too!!

Dealbreakers: Drug users. Smokers. Heavy Drinkers. Bad Hygiene. Looking for online only or chat buddies. Spouse bashing. Don't have time/means for an affair. Women who cannot figure out how/when/where to meet. Don't understand being discreet is necessary. Have lousy OPSEC. Less than 30 years old.

About me w/o revealing a lot: Married, straight, conventionally attractive, fit, strong, tall, active, open-minded, easy going. Have a good, settled life in general except for the DB situation. Looking for one person to have something ongoing. Not into sexting, if that matters to you. Availability for intimate meet-ups is typically around/after end of work on weekdays, weekends possible too (all location dependent)

If you decide to reach out, please include some basic information like your age, location, what are you looking for, availability for meet-ups, etc, and anything else that you would like to share/talk about at the outset.

If this piques your interest and you think we could be a match, send me a chat and let's connect. Cheers (to us being future APs)!!