32 mF4 cheating fantasy

Looking to fulfill my fantasy to cheat with a submissive/dominant woman (age 24 to 50) who is in a committed relationship. Understanding boundaries is extremely important to create a safe interaction. I am very happy in my current relationship but would love to explore the rush that comes with a stranger. A good fit is a must and knowing that the other person has as much to lose is a turn on to me and it speaks to keeping the intention clear.

I am 6 feet 210 pounds, average body with an active lifestyle. To some I'm good looking but I think I'm pretty average.

My thought process : It's an experience that can't be replicated with someone I know or bought and I am in no rush.

Where it started: On a hot summer day I visited a female friend who I've known for 10 years (she knows my partner too), I know her husband over the years and he is a nice guy. Between our conversations catching up, there was a slight sexual tension and I could help thinking what would be like if we fucked spontaneously. Soaking my hard cock in her mouth and wet pussy making her feel like the biggest slut ever placing here in every part of her house. THOUGH I couldn't never act out on it due to real life consequences (losing a friendship, changing the dynamic and potentially ruining a marriage). I later found myself attracted to my female coworkers who were happily married or commited. Something about using another person's exclusive partner as my submissive cock worshipping slut turns me on so much. The switch from being a good partner to being a submissive doll that let's fill her filthiest desires is the taboo kink I have. The rush of it being a stranger and how wrong it is to cheat on my partner is part of it too. I do not intend to leave her she makes me very happy.

Tell me things that you wish your partner would do to you but is too afraid due to respect/dynamic. I prefer non vanila sex (not extreme) and open to a degree or kinks or light cnc. It can be just text, a makeout or full blown sex. Whatever that feeds the fantasy consensually.

Discretion is a priority to protect our relationships and happy to discuss details.

Hard no's: single females, extreme bdsm, cuckhold, pain, harm, men or open relationships. (We need to go back in one piece both physically and mentally)

Scenario example: 1) (Submissive) You are a type A reserved (shy) high value woman who is afraid to cheat the thought cheating sickens and yet excites you. We connect and establish what we want and I groom you to be my submissive slut in the secret. When we meet eventually at a neutral location say a hotel we talk for a bit and pretend like it's casual friendly meet. At this point we would know each other enough to know that we are safe. Your heart pounding from excitement and nervousness. Your pussy throwing knowing I'm going use you and satisfy your dark twisted fantasy. We both get what we want and go back to our safe partners after. NSA

2) (Dominant) you are experienced miss the days of being a available to more than one men. You are a flirt and are experienced having casual encounters in rare occasions. Life is great with your partner but fucking someone has only been a fantasy as it's too messy to navigate it. We talk and make arrangements to meet at a hotel and you use me as your fuck toy. You know what you need and get it. We part ways after going back to our safe partners. NSA

• please be responsible and as the risk are high (part of the fun) I don't want to ruin homes and my relationship
• chemistry is important
• I am not rigid to a specific dynamic/fantasy
• regular check ins to make sure we are both okay *important to feel safe
• I am learning about myself in this process and may chose not to proceed it I don't feel comfortable

Message me directly here to chat I'm not always here for obvious reasons. Responses might be delayed