Hello! I feel like a longer post is going to help weed out some of the chaff and encourage others who might otherwise not reach out. Here’s what I’m looking for and a little about me.

I’m a 33 year old, average build (hit the gym but not a gym rat by any stretch), 6ft tall. I travel frequently for work (nationally and internationally). I read frequently and enjoy biking, in winter I’m a massive homebody and enjoy watching movies on the couch once or twice a week. I’ve had success on dating apps in the city but I am looking for something more specific.

I have a kink, fetish, whatever you want to call it. About being involved with someone who’s in a relationship. Maybe stop reading if you’ve already been put off by that, as I’m not interested in having philosophical conversations regarding what I enjoy with people who aren’t tentative partners/playmates. I’ve read books on affairs and non-monogamy, and I’ve made peace with myself about this dynamic. It’s something I’m completely comfortable talking about with a prospective date in person though.

I would enjoy a relationship (or some approximation of it) with someone comfortable texting on a Friday and doing something (whether it’s a movie or a night in, whatever) but also doesn’t mind if we go a month without seeing one another. Maybe this is a unicorn FWB situation that doesn’t exist, but if you’re looking for a very low-pressure situation, this might be up your alley.

I’m happy to be your lonely Saturday cure or impromptu afternoon swing, whatever you need really. As long as you’re comfortable accepting that I’m not looking to develop into something more serious.

Thanks for reading if you made it this far, I’m not in a rush and don’t mind chatting online a bit before meeting for the first time. Specifically interested in someone with a partner, but if the idea of the above sounds pleasurable to you anyway (low commitment FWB situation), then feel free to get in touch.