2023 has been a roller coaster ride in terms of finding an AP. I have been exploring online dynamics for a while but in 2023 realized what I want. I want an AP who wants and can give constant consistent attention and affection.

I'm 40, married(not looking to change my situation) work from home, so i am able to make time to give you the attention you desire!

I have had few good connections and conversations but for reason unknown and known I have been ghosted far to times. If you are a ghost please stay away.

I know physical attraction is important for you, it’s important for me, but not as important as emotional and intellectual interaction. Though I do not expect my AP to have a perfect body, I do expect them to feel confident and attractive in their skin. I am a tall guy who is not a gym rat but loves to stay in shape, I believe i have an attractive and fit bod. Here is a non identifying SFW picture of me. Hope I do not regret putting this picture out there.

For those who wants their man to have an intellectual conversation should know I am an educated professional working from home in a stable job in an industry that I like. If I have the right connection then there is no way any meetings can keep me away from you for more than couple of hours.

I love talking, I am reserved at first, but if you open up and let me open up then don’t blame me to take your ear off by rambling blabbering, and if you're able to, I'll probably text you all day.

I am huge on spending quality time, if you are up for it then I am sure I will be taking away most of your time. I love to text and get in a call as a when possible. You might wake up with my text and my text would be the last thing you see before you go to bed :)

I am very touchy.. my hands will be all over you caressing you when you are around me.

One of the reason apart from trying to get your attention affection, I would love it if you are into kinks. I think kinks are good, but exploring kinks with someone with whom I have emotional connection will make it awesome. We can talk about it, if you are new and want to explore, I have all the patience.

Finally, ethnicity- I have had conversations where things are going great, then ethnicity comes up and I get ghosted. So putting it here so that anyone who wants to filter can do that. I am Indian/south Asian, born and raised there.

II am based out of Ontario Canada, close to GTA. If you are around GTA, I would like us to eventually meet in person and build an amazing relationship. If you are in the US or other parts of the world, let’s chat and see how it goes.

About you:

You are between 27-45, no hard limit in the age of we connect and vibe

You are very talkative, loves to laugh and maybe makes others laugh.

You are clingy and seeking my attention all the time by distracting me.

You like taking care of yourself, physically. Not looking for a 10, but it’s always good to take care of oneself. In my opinion some curves are beautiful.

You are a professional and educated, working in a job or doing business, basically enjoying what you are doing.

You love vanilla romance and willing explore some kinks

I understand Privacy and being discreet at least initially is important for us. So I am not looking for us to get on video calls or share pics, but I would love to be able to talk on calls as well along with texts. I am Okay to move to another platform sooner if you are okay.

So if you were able to read through the entire post and resonate with my thoughts then dont wait to send me that text…to create some awesome memories in 2024 and beyond