Fair warning that this is gonna be a long personal, but we believe the effort is worth it to find you!

TL;DR: We are a kinky couple seeking another female submissive to join us, ideally as a triad. We have recently discovered that we both want to find someone we can love, cherish, and grow with together in and outside of a D/S dynamic and relationship.

About Us, AKA "Who are We?"

Physically - He is 24, white, brown hair/eyes, active/athletic (5'6/140lbs), non-smoker, clean/DDF. She is 28, white, ginger hair, blue eyes, active (5’7/122lbs), non-smoker, clean/DDF We are able to verify each other with photos as well!

Personalities - He (Dom) is a mixture of passion, support, and just the right amount of deviancy. I would describe him as playful, sadistic, caring, gentle, empathetic, communicative, honest, creative, mature, witty, curious, easy to talk to, driven, patient, and open-minded.

She (Sub) is a lover at heart, and cares very much about those she surrounds herself with. I would describe her as very caring, loving, gentle, perfectionist, playful, bratty, and of course a very Good Girl.

Interests - He is part homebody, part social (He’s what you might call an extroverted introvert). He has an assortment of interests, including: TV/film (Action, Fantasy, Sci-fi), kayaking, music (his playlist has so many genres it could be classified as an identity crisis), history (he adores museums), games (video games & tabletops), reading (Sci-fi & Fantasy) health (mental physical), cooking (Still learning new recipes).

She is a homemaker, a bit of an introvert, but when she opens up to you she will gleefully express her thoughts & interests. She absolutely adores Harry Potter & Criminal Minds. She has similar musical interest to his but more emphasis for country. She enjoys DnD, reading psychology, taking the fur babies for walks, hiking, and baking!

Hopefully we share a few interests already~

Who and what We are looking for

Another submissive addition to our relationship (Triad) Submission and D/s are not mutually exclusive from having agency in life. In fact, they're complimentary. We looking for someone who considers herself passionate/driven/ambitious (whatever that means to you) - but also dreams of relinquishing control in the right hands. Someone craving to be with trusted partners who will challenge her, and help her succeed in everything she desires in life through the care, safety, structure, pleasure, discipline of a holistic D/s dynamic. We are looking for a submissive that understands that this kind of relationship will come with its fair share of challenges and tall the intricacies that come with it. We do not expect anyone to throw themselves into something immediately, we are new to this relationship type as well, and we know it’s likely going to be difficult to find. However, for us it is something we would like to pursue and hopefully find another soulmate.

We would love to discuss this part in MUCH further detail upon chatting!

Our ideal partner has the some of the same qualities that we also bring: she loves to explore/learn/try new things, she's active/takes care of her physical mental health, she has goals, she is communicative, empathetic, giving, loyal, honest, kinky, emotionally available, not looking for a "sugar daddy", and serious about putting in the effort for us as we are her.

We genuinely open to most s-type identity (sub, little, middle, pet, brat, etc.).

Some of our dealbreakers in a partner are: nicotine/cigarette smoker, not vaccinated, not pro-choice/not interested in birth control, any STIs/STDs.

Location - Onslow County, North Carolina. We are also open to those along the East Coast and able to come to travel with a plan. I am open to online connection within the US, and would be open to have a long distance connection for the right person but our intention is to meet.

Do you already recognize yourself and think we could be compatible? Don't hesitate to PM and test the waters!

We know it can be intimidating to message so please know you are always appreciated.

The kinky stuff

Experience - Whether this is your first or fiftieth rodeo, He is welcoming of all as he has been in the lifestyle for 6 years. However he had a long break In that time and some things will require practice to ease back into, he has had D/s relationships to different degrees (including D/s, TPE, M/s, low protocol) which have led him to narrow down what he needs and look for as far as compatibility go, hence this post. He is an open book and always happy to answer anything on your mind. If you're curious and inquisitive, we're probably a perfect match already!

D/s dynamic - We would consider want to be your escape, comfort, and accountability rolled into one. Nurturing but exhilarating, sweet yet firm, dominant but respectful. The one constant is that We are big on communication and care, making our dynamic not just a safe-space but something unique. Our partner is a priority for us, just as we want to be for her. That means we would like to chat regularly and spend time together when schedules align and or working around conflicting schedules. We are also a believer in (negotiated) structure and rules beyond the bedroom. Each dynamic is unique so it's not a one-size-fits-all. Obviously nothing happens until we've established clear connection, consent, and mutual respect. Much more to discuss together.

My hard limits - ABDL/diapers and scat

Our kinks - Include impact play, bondage/shibari, sensation play, orgasm control/edging, some humiliation/degradation, praise, service, training/tasks/protocols, among others and open to trying more.

If the fact that We’ve written roughly 900 words to find you gets you excited, then the only thing left to do is take that leap & pm me!