Hey there. Fair warning that this is gonna be a long personal, but you're worth it.

TL;DR: I'm an experienced, creative, active Dom looking for a local sub who is equally passionate in life, and yearns to give into/be challenged by her trusted partner for a rewarding ethical kinky relationship. Let's 1 each other!

About me AKA "Who is this man?"

Physically - I'm 24, attached (She is very aware of this & supportive, can be verified), white, brown hair/eyes, active/athletic (5'6/140lbs), non-smoker, clean/DDF. Happy to verify each other with photos early on.

Personality - I'm a mixture of passion, support, and just the right amount of deviancy. I've been described as playful, sadistic, caring, gentle, empathetic, communicative, honest, creative, mature, witty, curious, easy to talk to, driven, patient, and open-minded.

Interests - Part homebody, part social. I've got a pretty eclectic assortment of interests, including: TV/film (Action, Fantasy, Sci-fi), kayaking, music (my playlist has so many genres it could be classified as an identity crisis), history (I adore museums), games (video games & tabletops), reading (Sci-fi & Fantasy) health (mental physical), cooking (Still learning new recipes). Hopefully we share a few interests already.

Who and what I'm looking for

Looking to be a submissive addition? Submission and D/s are not mutually exclusive from having agency in life. In fact, they're complimentary. I'm looking for someone who considers herself passionate/driven/ambitious (whatever that means to you) - but also dreams of relinquishing control in the right hands. Someone craving to be with a trusted partner who will challenge her, and help her succeed in everything she desires in life through the care, safety, structure, pleasure, discipline of a holistic D/s dynamic. I am looking for a submissive that understands that I have a relationship and all the intricacies that come with it. I would love to discuss this part in MUCH further detail upon chatting!

My ideal partner has the same qualities that I bring: she loves to explore/learn/try new things, she's active/takes care of her physical mental health, she has goals, she is communicative, empathetic, giving, loyal, honest, kinky, emotionally available, not looking for a "sugar daddy", and serious about finding a Dom partner.

I'm genuinely open to every s-type identity (sub, little, middle, pet, brat, etc.).

My only dealbreakers in a partner are: nicotine/cigarette smoker, not vaccinated, not pro-choice/not interested in birth control, any STIs/STDs.

Location - Onslow County, North Carolina. I'm also open to those along the East Coast and able to come to travel with a plan. I am open to online connection within the US, and would be open to have a long distance connection for the right person but my intention is to meet.

Do you already recognize yourself and think we could be compatible? Don't hesitate to PM and test the waters!

I know it can be intimidating to message so please know you are always appreciated.

The kinky stuff

Experience - Whether this is your first or fiftieth rodeo, I'm welcoming of all as I've been in the lifestyle for 6 years. However I had a long break In that time and some things will require practice to ease back into, I've had D/s relationships to different degrees (including D/s, TPE, M/s, low protocol) which have led me to narrow down what I need and look for as far as compatibility go, hence this post. I'm an open book and always happy to answer anything on your mind. If you're curious and inquisitive, we're probably a perfect match already!

D/s dynamic - I consider myself your catharsis, comfort, and accountability rolled into one. Nurturing but exhilarating, sweet yet firm, dominant but respectful. The one constant is that I'm big on communication and care, making our dynamic not just a safe-space but something unique. My partner is a priority for me, just as I want to be for her. That means I would like to chat regularly and spend time together when schedules align and or working around conflicting schedules. I'm also a believer in (negotiated) structure and rules beyond the bedroom. Each dynamic is unique so it's not a one-size-fits-all. Obviously nothing happens until we've established clear connection, consent, and mutual respect. Much more to discuss together.

My hard limits - ABDL/diapers and scat

My kinks - Include impact play, bondage/shibari, sensation play, orgasm control/edging, some humiliation/degradation, praise, service, training/tasks/protocols, among others and open to trying more.

If the fact that I've written roughly 900 words to find you gets you excited, then the only thing left to do is take that leap & pm me!