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Hey! I want to write this post to make a little bit clearer my vision for this sub because I see that there are still a lot of members confused about what this sub is all about, what this community is meant for and so on.
This is a place meant for ALL kinds of sex workers (and not only) who can help solve issues of being a camgirl/model and it is NOT LIMITED to camgirls/models only. This is not a place for camgirls/models ONLY - sorry if that disappoints you but it will never be one - there are other places you can go if you're searching such a place.
For those of you who don't know me already, I am a man, 32 years old, from Romania / Europe working as web developer, I own some sex worker related websites, I work as affiliate and I am super interested in adult traffic and SEO among other things.
I'm telling all that about me because I think it's relevant in order to understand why I have a specific vision for this sub and it's Discord server.
When I first started working in the sex industry as affiliate I`ve seen there are 3 different players on each success sex related platform (camming, vod ... etc) - the platform, the models and the affiliates but I have also noticed a huge gap between the last two especially in the camming biz where it is the most important.
I remember when I first started (when people didn't knew me in this biz), trying to explain to different cam models how both could benefit by working together and how hard it was for me to find a model who can understand that.
That was the moment when I realised most models don`t even know what an affiliate is and how all this works so I made some research to find out how other affiliates are working (I had experience as affiliate but not on the adult biz).
In my searches I found out a forum called GFY (you can check that out if you want ... it's pretty usefull and you can learn a lot) - this is where all affiliates (and not only) were asking different questions, where a lot of people from the adult biz were working together to make $$$ - I liked it and it felt like home immediately. There were all kind of people there ... affiliates, website owners, studio owners, web designers, SEO specialists, lawyers, copywriters and I was learning something different from each of them.
It was all good but a piece was still missing, the models - so I tried to bring some of the models I knew to that platform - mission impossible.
It took me a while but I decided to try my luck on another platform - reddit.
I took this sub when it had less than 1k members, full of spam and questions without an answer - I cleaned it and started to invest time in answering as many questions as I could and had knowledge about but it was not enough - I was still learning things myself (I still do every day) so I couldn't have all the answers for all the questions.
I wanted to create a community where all kind of workers, models, affiliates, website owners, studio owners, web designers, SEO specialists, lawyers, copywriters and so on can work together and if mohammed won't come to the mountain (it really felt that way) ... I`ll bring the mountain so ... I started to look for people with all kind of expertise and make them join this community - I never tried to bring more cam models though (it just happen) because there was already a huge number of questions without an answer.
I didn't do all that by myself - I had a lot of help from people who liked my ideea - people who still helped even though they are not mods, they don`t gain anything beside knowledge and the sentiment that they are doing something good by helping others.
But enough with the story telling - the point is, this sub and it's Discord server is "home" to more than camming models and if you don't see the benefits of having access to a wider source of information you should just leave.
This sub has me (a man) as a mod and if that's something you have a problem with, you should just leave because it won't gonna change too soon.
This sub is not something you are entitled to have access to ... but if you do want to have access to ... respect the sub rules or you should just leave.
This sub is for people who need help and for people who can help, for people who, even if they have a bad day, can bite their fingers instead of insulting others and acuse them for their problems ... and if you're not like that ... you should just leave.
This sub is for positive people who don't rant at the smallest problem they might have but always look for ways to solve a problem instead of complaining about it and if you're not such a person you should just leave.
If you find yourself more times hating than loving it ... just leave.
If you decide to leave, feel free to tell the entire world how bad CGP mods are and how they are not doing their job - I don't care - I know the members that matter will stay because they understand all I've been writing and much more and I know the members who are genuinely looking for help, will find us anyway.
It upsets me when I see ignorant people with herd mentality trying to destroy all the good things we have built. I know there is still room for improvements but we are doing our best.
I know this post will not answer all your questions so ... feel free to use the comment section. You can also join our Discord server ... as another member said ... I`m chattier there.
Edit: I've been told a link to the Discord server would be helpful - here it is - https://discord.gg/7ZYH3rV
dude i donāt know what everyoneās going on about, iāve known this the entire time, in most simplest terms itās literally a sub where cam models can post problems and ANYONE can answer if they have knowledge. title isnāt misleading, itās answers to cam girl problems. iāve loved this sub since i joined a couple months ago. i donāt see many affiliates here, also donāt really know the definition, iām assuming itās people who can help like photographers or website builders, but thatās also because not everyone says āhey, chaturbate bio maker here,ā whenever they answer a question. I love this sub and iām grateful that the knowledge is being passed around so much. personally i am not offended or mad at you inviting people to leave because it just makes sense, if you donāt appreciate this sub, then leave. i also feel like it is a safe space. they are AFFILIATES that literally is a friendly thing, they want to help, theyāre here to help. not sure why everyone is so mad. what is there to be upset about??? people stay mad in 2020, chillllllll a little, make your own subreddit, or just slow your roll, dude. the mod didnāt even need to make this subreddit for you, hes literally doing it to HELP, and i bet many of the people complaining have gotten questions answered or received anything else good from here. all love. i appreciate everyone here and the connections that can be madeš
yeah thatās shitty, but thatās on any subreddit. iāve had people tell me that i look like shit on my own posts in nsfw subreddits. thatās just the internet. thereās no safe space unless itās a verification subreddit, and even then itās not completely safe, because people can still see it and/or comment! you canāt complain about trolls and blame it on the moderator. thatās like complaining about a customer in a store and saying itās the managers fault that they let him in there. how is the manager supposed to know until it happens? then when the person breaks the rules, they get banned from the subreddit, just like the customer would be asked to leave. iām not saying you have to love this subreddit, but take it for what it is, itās a public place on the internetš iām sorry about that creep though, but if anyone can post on a subreddit without verification, then you shouldnāt expect there to be an absolutely perfect system with no creeps. thereās the sex workers only thread though, which seems to satisfy the people with concerns about creeps. or you could always report the person to the mods and theyāll take care of itšš
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yes, and i hope they realize that thereās loads of men out there that arenāt creeps. thereās cammers that are men, i see at least 10 males on the front page of chaturbate every time, i work with my boyfriend who is a sw with me, the lighting and camera crew on porn sets are a lot of men (and id also say they classify as sex workers because well... duh... just think about it), thereās a lot of men who are photographers/videographers, lawyers, site/chat room moderators, website builders, marketing people, etc. would you be upset if your gyno was a man? if you would be, thatās kinda weird. girls are just put on the forefront but itās ignorant to assume the entire industry is just females. most behind the scenes people that i know of are male! itās only off putting when the male acts creepy, but just because someone has a penis you donāt want to talk to them about your cam girl problems? you donāt want them to know or something? why wouldnāt you want anyone with knowledge to help? i thought gender wasnāt even a big deal in 2020! even if they werenāt active on this particular sub, a man can still access and read everything! iām not sure why they are throwing fits about the mod being a man, he was just born like that lol. itās not like weāre posting pics of ourselves on here and shit and most of the people on here use throwaway accounts. the backlash doesnāt make any real sense. logically, it is a place to post a question/problem related to camming and receive an answer, like yahoo answers. that means anyone can respond. weāre lucky thereās no real trolls here ever and the mods sweep that up so quickly you canāt even see. being a man doesnāt change the intentions of a human being, this sub is still the same as itās always been. thereās been women creeps and women say the most mean shit and call us trash with no dignity for being swers. anyone can be a piece of garbage and anyone can help, it all depends on the human beingās inner intentions, not their physical genitals.