Kinda tame compared to what I usually enjoy, but it's been on my mind to try for a while now so figured I'd post and see if I get lucky.

Like mentioned in the title, I'm looking to help give a four-hand mas sage (to both him and her) as well as receive one. Interspersed with or leading to more intense play.

I'll lead with the fact that I'm NOT a masseuse, therapist or anything like that. And if I had to choose a way to describe my skills most accurate would be "mid AF" LOL. But I absolutely LOVE body contact, caressing and bringing pleasure. Have big, strong hands from working out and winning the 6'1" genetic lottery. I've been told multiple times that I have a pretty calming touch/presence, which is good as I'm not exactly the most approachable looking guy to a lot of folks (not unattractive, just kinda intimidating from what I've been told)

Just to be upfront and not skew expectations, I would ideally like to add this on as a bit of enhanced foreplay before building up to a full threesome. So it's not likely I'll just be looking for a mas sage and leaving it at that. Same reason I don't like strip clubs all that much; hate getting wound up and not being able to release that energy when it's ready to be released LOL. So if you're looking just for "soft" play, I totally respect your preferences, boundaries, and where you are in your journey of exploration. But we wouldn't be a good fit.

That's it. Less witty than my usual posts, but wanted to keep it simpler this time around. I put a bit of effort into this post, so please put some in our reply if you hit me up. Tell me a bit about you two. Your experiences, or what you're looking for from a potential third. And please include some pics of you two as well. Clothed, faceless, identifiable tattoos covered, etc. are all fine with me. I just like an idea of who I'm talking to, and will of course send one of myself back.

NO requests (read: DEMANDS) for nudes right off the bat

NOT looking for other single dudes, then "both of us find a chick to play with". What an immense waste of my time. If I was a single lady being approached by two complete strangers WHO ARE ALSO STRANGERS TO EACH OTHER, I'd be sketched out AF. Don't be that guy

NOT looking to sext, fantasize, help you find a way to "convince" your wife/GF to try this, or anything that falls within this territory. Once again, immense waste of my time

I'm sure I sound like a dick after that last part, but it's difficult enough finding compatible people on here as it is. It's pretty fucking irksome when someone reaches out who explicitly ISN'T what you said you were looking for, or didn't even take the time to read your post at all. So, I'd rather be a dick on here to save myself the time, than have to be one in my DMs. Thanks for understanding, and respecting what I'm looking for before choosing to reach out.