Hello! I (25/F) am in an open sexual relationship with my Fiance (35/M). We are not full blown swingers as of yet. He is not 100% comfortable with the idea, whereas I'm hoping that we'll be able to reach that level one day.

He and I have discussed this all in detail. He is aware that I am looking to make connections on my travels, as I always do when I go to new places. This is to say, I am not looking for sexual partners or to be the "unicorn" for anyone (though I have no oppositions to it and my fiance would be happy to get the juicy details if it does happen), but to see if there are any couples willing to meet and discuss this lifestyle? I have an idea of how things should be (full communication, comfortability checks, expectations etc.), but I'd love to get tips and advice from those more experienced.

I'm only in California for a week and will be traveling around a bit, so I hope to meet a few people on friendly, open terms. As I said before, my fiance is fully aware that I am traveling and trying to meet other people to figure out how best for us to transition into swingers/a more open couple.

Also, I know swinger parties happen and have never been to one. If anyone is willing to discuss party etiquette and boundaries, I'd appreciate it! If possible, I would love to attend one for observational and educational purposes only. I do not wish to insert myself unless invited.

Thanks in advance! Psinny