Wife and I went to Secrets and had a blast. However while we were there some couples recommended Caliente as a more laidback and resort style of environment and that sounded really appealing to us. I should mention we haven't played with any other couples and more than likely won't for the foreseeable future and even if it did it would more than likely just be her. I guess you could say we are more voyeuristic than anything at this point. Anyways, she said that one thing she really did enjoy was seeing all of the sexual energy. From the playrooms to the full on sex poolside, she said she loved seeing all of it.

So that leads me to the question and title of the post. I read in the rules that there's no overt sexual activity out in the open/poolside. Also that the playroom is closed indefinitely at the moment. However, I have also seen some posts on here that may or may not contradict that rule. You can DM me if you don't want to comment on what's really ok or not. Just curious.