Hi Everyone!

As a moderators of our community, we want to help everyone to find someone amazing in the area they are in.

In the past we had complaints about postings not having an area noted in them, making it hard to find people in your area. We started the rule that post titles must include city or area code rule to address this. This rule helps both with people browsing for meetups, or doing searches for meetups.

We've had some recent complaints about postings being "low quality". For instance, the low effort posts that only have the area code in the title, and don't even explain who the post is from, or what they are looking for, or important details like their age.

To help with this issue, we are exploring using this new title standard:

AGE [AreaCode] R4R (Then anything else you want to add, like another R4R or city name)

Note that the city won't be required, but we encourage you to use it, because people might still search by that, until they understand that area code is required.

Area Codes allowed are only the 38 that are in California.

R4R means “Redditor for Redditor” It's used as an abbreviation of the gender4gender standard, such as:

M4MtF —Male for Male transitioned to Female S4M, Sissy4M, or even Sissy4Male — Sissy for Male CD4F — Crossdresser for Female And many more.

There's no enforced set of genders, so please use what you identify as.

There must be at least one R4R in the Title after the [AreaCode], but you can add more R4R, or anything after the first R4R. Age must be first. For example:

39 [213] M4CD M4S M4A LA Horny Man Hosting at Hotel

18 [408] Sissy4Sissy San Jose SJ Meetup for Coffee, Maybe More

43 [916] CD4M Sac Sacramento Mature CD needs FWB

Because we see a lot of meetup subreddits require such standardized titles, we don't believe it will be much of a surprise that we'll be using such rules in the near future.

The hope is to make sure that posts meet a certain level of quality, which raises the chances of everyone to find someone amazing in their area.

Now is the time to give feedback, so please let us know if you see any downsides to this title standard.

If you want to test a post, to see what will be rejected and what will be accepted, please make a post in r/ErikasArea51 , that subreddit currently has the automated code that will remove posts that don't match CA Area Codes and the new standardized format.

Thank you, and as always, we hope you find someone amazing!

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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_California_area_codes