Hey All!

As I continue my foray into the dating app scene, and after spending many years in and out of the local kink scene via fetlife

I find myself having difficulty locating additional partners. My anchor partner is a gem, but they are not kinky.

I would not argue that I am very social, but I do go to the swing club, and I do get out to things reasonably often.

Yes, I am looking for 1-2 humans as I do enjoy switching. Those switching with the same person is generally difficult for me. I’m in my late 20s for reference.

I have no idea what to do in terms of locating humans who are of similar interests, and I’m not sure that there are many men who would put the work in to treat me like a person for a long enough until I feel safe; at which point I am happy to become an object.

So I ask my fellow ladies/femmes what has worked for you for finding kink partners, or cute simps. As I am growing very tired and refuse to lose hope yet.

Cheers!