When I think about it, what comes to mind are things like planning a sexual act and a time limit and just meeting down the street or somewhere we can both park. Do it with almost no in-person getting to know each other (we can online, though) and fill a need for adventure or fun? Middle-aged people especially need a break from the monotony of life and work; sex games can do that. Let's say, for example, we talked the day before, and you bring your vibrator and wear easy-access clothing. We pick a time you go first, park and get ready, or in position, and I pop in and lick and vibrate you to a quick orgasm. Maybe the next time you do the same for me, and we make a game out of little random encounters. I could even start even more innocently, like having a long, passionate kiss. Anyway, the whole adventure sounds fun, and maybe you too?