I want to emphasize that I am committed and honest with my wife and am looking for a friend or maybe more to add new experiences or some additional excitement and enjoyment to life (my wife is not involved in this scenario or bisexual; please stop asking). While not particularly fixated on a specific type of person, I'm optimistic I'll find someone who enjoys spontaneous chemistry and a genuine connection.

The idea is to find a compatible woman for friendship and a casual affair or playful encounter. I'm open to an arrangement that works for both of us and easily fits into our schedule or something spontaneous; if you have something in mind, please ask me if I'm interested. I’m 43 years old, Caucasian, respectful, somewhat type-a/right-brains but not conservative or far right in any way, self-aware, and tend to connect with women who are attracted to guys with intelligence or more forward blunt personalities. Please send me a direct message so we can get to know each other. I am selective but not explicitly looking for a certain age or type of woman. And because a few inept guys have messaged me, this is a Man Looking for a Woman. My screen name is a silly joke and not one that relates to anything bad; for those who are overly sensitive to humour or don't get it, keep the negativity or judgment to yourself (we clearly won't get along anyway, so why comment). I'm looking forward to talking to and meeting someone new!