I haven’t been posting as much recently because I have a regular thing going now, but I must say that cake eating is keeping me sane.

Suffice to say I have met some wonderful women who are doing the same thing.

The focus is turned on us; no bashing SO’s or making excuses.

We openly share test results before, have safe fun and oftentimes get a little kinkier than we would at home.

I am writing this from a positive perspective that I enjoy this among others who understand.

There’s the occasional hatred but it’s mostly positive. Hell I have had a few people slide in my DMs and that’s been some of the best connections.

I know it isn’t for everyone, but I hope if you are considering it you do it because it brings you peace and makes you feel fulfilled.

If you live anywhere happy to share my experience with you in my DMs. And any ladies in SoCal you are the best and don’t let anyone tell you any different.

Cheers!