I've been in bdsm for 20 years. I'm a mix of gorean and modern bdsm styles. I'm a TPE 24/7 Master and Divine Dominant. I'm looking for my forever slave and sacred submissive. This is a lifestyle for me. I'm NOT here to sext, Roleplay, or play pretend.

I am also in a closed exclusive polyfidelity (we dont date outside of the relationship.) I have 2 vanilla gfs. They are immensely understanding and hopefully they will like you as well. You'd get 2 gfs and a bf/Master.

I hope one day to not just have a collaring ceremony for my slave but also one day legally marry her. I believe in the deepness of the bond between a M/s. The spirituality, the emotional, and the physicality that comes with a TPE lifestyle of this magnitude.

I'm a sadist, humiliator, and degrader. I'm strict but also understanding and caring. And i believe in aftercare. I'm also fond of being the owner of a pet, so those into petplay are also welcomed to message me.

I'm biracial (black and Greek) and on the average side of things. I have no problem sharing a picture when we speak. A bit about myself.

I'm big on the psychological, spiritual. And philosophical side of bdsm. I'm a big practitioner of the modern side of bdsm with some gorean traits in there. I'm very direct and I wholeheartedly believe in open communication. I expect worship(big) and dedication of my slave and I'm very understanding that with all things, it takes time to get there. I want someone to live for me as I live for my family and to be the best Master possible for them. To be the air they need to survive, the water they need to quench their dying thirst. To help my slave grow and evolve as a person. To teach lead guide and protect them from all this world has to harm them. I want to be the center of her being. I believe in keeping your word and a slave that says she will do anything means so. And a Master that says he will always be there for her means that as well. It can be seen as extreme but every dynamic is different. I believe in consent and healthy communication. Trust is a big factor in my life as well.

I don't view my slave as just a slave. As a TPE 24/7 Master it's a relationship and I try to strike an equal balance between the two. Respect honor and worship is big but that doesn't mean we can't go on a date and I can't open the door for you every now and then. I believe in expressing my care and affection.

I believe in adherence to a contract. I have standards and values that should be upheld. All limits or non limits agreed to are to be upheld. I believe in "this is not what i do, but who i am" when it comes down to our dynamic.

I'm big on rituals, protocols and worship. And the totality of Domination. The class, elegance, and beauty of submission and expression of emotions.

Kinks/Limits: And I'm admittedly a sexual deviant. Im into ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that doesn't involve sexual age play,  (that's a bit too much for me.) or anything sexual with another biological male (That includes pegging.) Scat is also another one off my list. Also abuse and toxicity is a no go for me. I get it's not a kink but you'd be surprised it might as well be with the experiences I've had.

Dealbreakers can be discussed hopefully when we speak. And I'm looking for someone that can devote time to getting to know me without making me feel like I'm on a game show with other contestants as I'm big on communication. Especially like you would have with someone you're already with. Best way to get to know someone is with conversation. Not an hr a day.

Long Distance is OK. But I'm against its permanence. Max is 2-3 months. Unless a good reason is presented. Relocation can be negotiated as my current employment is licensed to NYS only.

Also been asked this so I'll reply here. FtM is fine. Shaven is preferred.

SIDE NOTE IF YOU READ THIS FAR. SOME OF MY PLUS FYI: I'm 5'7 I don't mind height differences, so all is welcomed. But I do have a kink for shorter women on the under 5'0 side. Or taller than me. Gotta love an Amazon on a leash.

• Watersports is fun for me and I throughly enjoy a woman that likes it.

• My cum on your food is always hott.

Worship and deity Divinification is important to me

• If your Married that's ok let's talk and figure it out.

• Couples are fine but I am straight and my vanilla wives does not interact with the male. The relationship is strictly between myself the girls and my slave. The male in the applying couple would be akin to a cuckold/beta bitch, butler that we would use when necessary. Relationship control is also a kink of mine. Like I said I'm into alot.

• The fast you verify the better I'd believe it's not another catfish. VERIFY would be a selfie with the amount of fingers I'd tell you to hold up. Or you can write my username on a piece of paper and take a selfie with it.

• Full life control in the form of permissions I've done too. Bathroom, eating etc. While I'm not always that extreme, if you ARE. That's fine with me.

(Negative comments not warranted. BEST OF LUCK EVERYONE!!! Thanks for taking the time to read this. Say "cupcakes" if you did. Also please use the chat feature if interested.) Use the chat feature as I don't check messages.