I know it isn't a 'typical' situation for most people but I figured I'd post here just in case someone is looking for this as well and wants to connect.

First off I am a straight male located in Trumbull CT and am looking for a female (straight/bi/other it doesn't matter to me). I am poly/ENM (married 15 years), we date separately and are not looking for a 'unicorn'.

I am ideally looking for someone interested in something with long term potential (be it casual dating, ongoing fwb, or a serious non-primary relationship, I'm open to whatever develops) who is consistent, a good communicator, fun to be with (in and out of the bedroom), and is open to meeting once or twice a week (schedules permitting).

Chemistry and connection are key for me and while I'm not opposed to one time things (they can be fun and I do enjoy them), I'd prefer something longer term unless the chemistry/connection isn't there and there's no mutual interest in trying to build that.

I prefer someone local (local-ish) to Trumbull as it is easier to get together but for the right person an hour to an hour and half drive is do-able for me. I work from home with a very flexible schedule so daytime/evening/weekend all work for me. I can generally host but it depends on the day/time and usually I'm quite alright with last minute meetups too.

I'd love to hear from anyone who thinks they might be a good fit, you never know what will develop unless you give it a try and I'm very open to anything that comes along. Feel free to browse my profile, all my pertinent physical details/etc are there.

I have a photo on my profile but am happy to share more if we connect, basic info as follows:

37 years old / 6ft1 / 170ish lbs D&D Free / Vasectomy Safe / Circumcised Non-smoker / non-drinker