TLDR: Are there any members of Choice Social Club that can extend an invite to an upcoming event?

I am interested in exploring the lifestyle and my wife is supporting my interest and we need to ease into it. We are looking to meet people and learn more in a public setting like a bar or club. I’m looking for soft/full swap but she’s not ready for that yet. Based on reviews I’ve read here and recommendations I’ve gotten from SLS, Choice seems to be the best option in the area (near the RI/CT/MA “tri-state” corner of CT) for a casual low-pressure environment. We applied for membership 4 weeks ago but haven’t gotten a single response, we even tried calling a few times but nobody ever answers and we’ve left a couple messages. So, I was wondering if anyone here is a member and could help by either inviting us to an event or by dropping a note to the club on our behalf. (43/43 M/F) Thanks!