We went on vacation out of state as we’ve done every year since i was born in order to visit family. Since my dad is getting older and his health is declining (bad diabetes) I have been working the last few years to take over more and more of the drive. This year i managed to handle 99% of everything except for 2 hours of the drive on our way out. After we left and were driving back home my grandma called and said we had forgotten my father’s drill and socket set. My dad immediately got this pissed off look in his eyes that I used to see all the time as a kid and he raised his hand above his head as though he was going to smack the shit out of me; but for some reason he stopped…. Maybe because I was driving and he was afraid I’d kill us both, maybe because he’s getting older and knows I’m able to take him now, idk, but me forgetting the tools was all it took. No wonder I suffer from extreme perfectionism and feel like offing myself whenever I make a mistake if something as simple as forgetting tools can deserve a severe beating.