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Being an abuser : TW
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Can you be an abuser and a survivor?

Does being an abuser make you less of a survivor and can I even be a better person? I don't even think about my own trauma and abuse because thinking about it makes the abuse I did to others "less real" or I'm "justifying" the trauma I inflicted on others and idk, I also want to know if like I can ever atone for being an abuser

(Ive read bell hooks, Ive been very into anti patriarchy and dismantling my patriarchy)

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