I just quit an addiction and left a school with bad friends, no resources, and bad management

This process was helped by a tutor I have that I live with now and with her help I was able to hit high honor roll and not be so scared of the future

She's kind of overbearing but I've had some difficulty adjusting and learning how to cook and clean and take care of myself but she's taught how and has helped me a lot It's just so difficult transforming myself to match that normal kid mantle she wants me to be on. I have no idea how to be normal and act normal and she wants me to just get it, she says "You're 17 you're supposed to know right from wrong" and it's so confusing because she expects me to know and adapt to these Imaginary rules I've never been introduced too Yesterday I wanted to be quiet because I had a bad day, and she was on the phone I didn't answer when her friend(he's super cool I have no problem with him) was talking to me She starts barrating me for yesterday and today for being rude and saying I have no right to not talk and she's super close to kicking me out and she doesn't have to do half the things she's doing because she's not my mother I'm still like wtf , I just sat there and went with it because life is already difficult and I don't want to be in my mother's house But am I really in the wrong for what I did I don't know how to be normal and normal house rules so I'm oblivious