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What traits in people make you feel unsafe?
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One thing I'm working through with my therapist is how I close my personality off from some people (who feel unsafe) but then let my personality show for others (who feel safe).

I'm trying to figure out what traits signal to me that someone may be unsafe and why. Because it's not just a few people who this happens with, but more like half the population.

The first trait I think of is if someone is very outspoken and opinionated. I have a fear that they will oppose and verbally attack me. (This seems tied to my parents from childhood.)

Have you struggled with this or thought about this?

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