Today feels like a great day to talk with strangers online, am I right?.. I've been getting more interested in exploring the cnc kink and after having some positive discussions online and one very successful meet with women I met on here.. I think it would be incredibly thrilling to meet a compatibly curious woman to share this kink with.
I have been looking to make a connection with someone new and exciting. Typically, 2 people prefer to get to know each other by going out for drinks, coffee or dinner together and ask boring questions for 2-3 dates while we're both just secretly wondering what each other looks like naked..
We could do that.. or we could get to know each other in a pretty unique and unorthodox way. I was thinking we can chat online for a bit (until we both feel pretty comfortable about each other) then instead of setting up "normal dates" with each other.. We will setup CNC encounters to act out with one another.
Might be a fun experience for someone who's curious to engage in a little more cnc, as well as discreet public play.. maybe, you're walking in the park or on a hiking trail and all of the sudden get pulled behind the trees.. maybe, you're leaving a bar and unaware you're being followed until you're all alone.. perhaps, you get into the wrong Uber and the driver has alterior motives with you.. there could also be times when you get pulled into a hotel room or wake up to someone hovering over you when you're at your most vulnerable.
We will have our moments of "crossing paths" throughout our weeks and continue on with the rest of the day like nothing happened.
We'll chat normal and friendly with each other through texts, but always stay in our characters while we interact in person. I am a pretty easy going, rational, common sense guy who isn't looking to be part of creating any kind of toxic situations.. if we chat or even hangout a few times and decide not to pursue this any further, then I am more than cool with wishing you the best and going our separate ways.. I am also very open to our friendship/relationship evolving into more than just cnc encounters.
I can certainly be down to eventually be ourselves around each other as we go out to movies, out to drinks and dinner, taking our pets for hikes, and of course help each other explore any other kinks that we may have.
It's important to me that we can be completely open and unashamed of our kinks and desires with one another. I would absolutely love to hear any and all of your interest and curiosities as I believe open communication is pretty vital to be completely happy and satisfied with your partner.
We will definitely discuss and communicate what we're both looking for and figure out one another's wants, desires, any limitations we have and setup safewords.
A little bit of info about me.. I am 5'7 with a pretty fit body and working to stay active. I am also STD free and just retested a few weeks ago. Not married, don't have any kids and I am not really looking to change that right now. I am a pretty easy going guy with a witty and sarcastic sense of humor in my day to day life. I am overall very respectful to others, a huge animal lover, nerdy film buff, can be a bit introverted but love the outdoors and nature.
I am open to a VERY discreet and secret meetup situation if that's the thrill you're looking for.. but also very open for a new genuine connection with someone, if that's where this takes us.
Clearly, it would be easier for us to meet if you lived in Southern California. However, I have been itching to make a move and travel more.. so if this post really speaks to you, don't hesitate to reach out and who knows..
I appreciate those of you who stuck it out and read my unnecessarily long post.. if you do respond, it would great if you could reply with a nice little description of yourself and what you'rehoping for.. maybe brag a bit about your pets or something. Responses with just a "hey" or "hi" probably won't peak my interest enough to reply..
I look forward to hearing back from you
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