SAFETY GUIDELINES

CONSENT

1.A) Consent of all involved parties is paramount to any sexual encounter. It is advised by this subreddit to only accept video-call for consent, or meeting in public IRL prior to playing. Although rare scammers and trolls have been caught, faking consent with voice and pictures. Make sure your partners are real before doing anything that can cause trauma doing unsuspecting individual or legal troubles for you.

1.B) Consent must be obtained by all parties. Public playing involves people who would not otherwise be involved. Posts involving public play are prohibited.

1.C) Users may not arrange CNC interactions for another person, regardless of their relationship. If you did not get consent from the person you plan on playing with, you did not get consent.

SAFE WORD

2.A) To ensure the safety of all parties involved, a Safe Word must be established, which either party can use to terminate the encounter at any point. Using a Safe Word during an encounter is not shameful, and it must never be discouraged. Please report anybody who actively shames for using a safe word.

2.B) Refusal by either party to create or abide by a Safe Word is a bannable offense and should be reported to the moderators. Any violation of the Safe Word by either party is considered rape, and law enforcement must be notified immediately. Reporting such incidents is crucial to not only bring the perpetrator to justice but also to prevent further occurrences within the community.

2.C) Substance/intoxicant play, sleep play, and any other condition in which an immediate method of retraction of consent is not reasonably available is prohibited. An inoperable Safe Word always presents a problem. Seeking somebody to pretend to be asleep or intoxicated is acceptable, but anybody found using this exception to seek actual sleep or intoxication will be immediately banned. Please report if somebody pushes for you to be unconscious during play.

SAFETY BUDDY

3.A) We highly recommend that users find a third-party "buddy" to keep them informed of their plans, current status, more personal information like addresses, license plates, and pictures of all involved parties. These "buddies" can assist in rescuing the user or alerting law enforcement in case of an emergency.

3.B) While "buddies" come highly recommended, and are generally used for safety. If you suspect a buddy of doxing or harassing, do not be afraid to contact law enforcement as these are illegal. Reporting such activity to the moderators will also get them removed if they're in this group.

3.C) Users may post Buddy Requests (using the buddy flair), but it is suggested to thoroughly vet these people. As your safety lays just as much in their hands as it does your play partner.

Reports and messages about bad behavior, especially considering the safety guidelines are always appreciated. We want to keep the dangerous and toxic people out as much as you do, and if everybody's helping, it'll be a safer community. Photos of bad conversations help the mod team make appropriate decisions. Don't ever be discouraged to send the mod team a snapshot of somebody behaving inappropriately with the safety rules.

FORUM RULES

4) By posting on this subreddit, users acknowledge that they consent to receiving Private Messages concerning their post.

5) All posts must adhere to the posting requirements. Which can be found here along with getting approved to post and verification information. https://www.reddit.com/r/CNC_R4R/comments/132yq6q/post_format_getting_approved_to_post_and_optional/

6) Users may include a photograph or video of themselves, but only without a face showing. and it must only be of themselves. Posting pictures or videos here does not convey consent. As previously mentioned, only live video interaction or in-person meetings before the encounter are acceptable ways of verifying consent.

7) Posts on this subreddit must be related to in real life (IRL) consensual-non-consent (CNC) encounters. Posts that exclusively seek online interaction are not allowed. Users may only make one post within a 24-hour period, including deleted posts. Posts seeking to sell interaction, including sugar-like arrangements, are prohibited.

8) Moderators should only contact you in reply to the message sent to the moderation team. If a moderator contacts you via a private message, acting as a moderator, or you question the validity of a choice made by the mod team. inform u/throwaway284729174 directly as that is a major violation of this sub's policy.