Hey folks! It's your friendly neighbourhood dom again. This may be a long post so skip to the TL;DR at the end if you're not in the mood to read.

MY91 here, looking for something specific. I find that experiences centred around kink can sometimes get devoid of connection, if not done right, so I'm trying to do it right.

I look forward to meeting you, if you're open to going on dates, hanging out, cuddling and netflixing, and getting to know one another before we get kinky. I find unsustainable, fast burns can be gratifying but also quickly go from obsessed to boring, and we don't want that (or do we?)

You'll find me suitable to talk about a variety of things, from feminism, to food, fairytales to football, finding Nemo to finding Fanny. I enjoy some banter, good-natured roasting, swapping tv series/movie recommendations and playing video games too. I don't read nearly enough, so any help in cultivating habits is always a welcome part of a supportive equation.

Physically, I'm 5'9 and sport a bit of a dad-bod, I'm clean and usually have a generous beard. I'm also employed, work 9-5 on weekdays and have a full social life.

I'm open to both new and experienced kinksters, but I am on my own journey of discovering (and accepting) my interests and the psyche that lies behind the kinks, which means that although my kinks are relatively crystallised, I keep understanding more and more about them. I am in therapy, and I hope you are too, cause someone who can own their feelings, communicate about them, and work with whatever both people bring to the table is automatically so much hotter than someone who cannot.

My kinks, limits and interests are as follows:

Kinks (I like): CNC and general force play, face slapping, spanking and general impact play, humiliation, degradation, breeding, choking, cuckqueaning, and overall domination. I'm also quite possessive.

Interests (I am exploring): DD/LG, Pain play, impregnation.

Limits (I do not like): Scat, watersports, snuff, femdom, cuckolding/hotwifing, sissies/ sissification, incest, vore, gore.

In case you read all this, include the word 'hitchhiker' in your opening message, so I can know. Please be cisgendered & female, located in Goa for the long term and between the ages of 23 & 35.

TL;DR: 29 y.o dad-bod dom seeks self-aware, communicative sub for CNC and other stuff. Looking for someone in Goa who can hold a conversation and enjoys cuddles, hangouts and getting to know one another, as well as getting kinky.

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