There’s a feeling deep in my bones that keeps coming back to the surface. You know the one, even if you feel it from the opposite end.

I ignore it, or don’t feel the need to indulge in it for a while, but it always comes back, lingering in the back of the mind, growing stronger, until it starts to consume me and it invades all of my thoughts.

It’s that desire-no… I take that back. It’s that need to hurt someone, to use them, to BREAK them. That high that only comes from stripping someone down to their rawest and leaving them shaking and vulnerable while I take out all of my pent up frustrations on them. It’s that feeling of tearing somebody down before building them back up that only this kink can really fulfill.

Ideally that’s where you come in.

I’m a 35 year old sadistic man in the DMV area, although I may be willing to consider the surrounding areas if you really pique my interest. I’m not new to either sadism and BDSM in general or CNC specifically. I’ve had the singular fortune of meeting several wonderful partners to indulge my less… conventional cravings, and been even more fortunate to remain friends with a handful of them (even if they have since entered relationships or moved away).

As far as appearances go I try to take care of myself. I’m 6’0, fit/hwp, fair skinned with dark hair and hazel eyes with a close cropped beard. I’m clean and DDF with recent test results I’m happy to share, and to say I have a high sex drive is woefully underselling the matter.

You could make an entire book out of my kinks, but to give a short list I have a particular interest in CNC (obviously), impact play, breath play, breeding/forced creampies, bondage, public play, edging/overstimulation and degradation and humiliation. But that’s far from a comprehensive list.

I take informed consent and safety VERY seriously despite being engaged in edgeplay, and I’ve been told I give excellent aftercare.

Ideally you’re a cis woman of legal age first and foremost (sorry, I’m afraid this is non-negotiable to me, I’m fully straight and while I love my trans friends I’m afraid I’ve never found myself attracted to them either) within an hour or two of DC or Maryland.

And while it may sound shallow, I’m also seeking somebody reasonably fit who takes care of themselves. I’m not expecting a model-goodness knows I’m not-but physical attraction is indeed a factor for me along with chemistry and I want to be upfront about that.

Strong preference goes to those that have masochistic leanings or interests. Experience with kink is always good as well, but I’m certainly willing to consider someone inexperienced if the chemistry is there as long as we can firmly communicate about our limits and what we both want out of an encounter.

As for what shape the scene itself takes… Well, I suppose that’s something we have to figure out together.

Maybe I’ve been watching you for a while, stalking you, obsessing over you, waiting for the right moment to corner you somewhere alone and vulnerable.

Maybe we go out on a date. I’m a perfect gentleman, charming, funny, considerate and kind. You invite me in for a cup of coffee afterwards figuring what’s the harm, not realizing I want more, and I won’t take no for an answer.

Maybe I break in during the middle of the night, startling you awake as I hold you down and use you while you’re groggy and panicked.

However we start, it all ends the same-with you a shaking, sticky, tear stained mess barely able to stand, covered in marks and cum.

If I’ve at all piqued your interest, please feel free to reach out. I’ll be waiting for you…