I’m anxious about about posting this, but you’ve gotta take risks to really get anything worth having right? So here goes. If the post is still up, I’m still in the search.

I’m looking for a woman, who’s also looking for a guy, who wants to fulfill their CNC fantasy. I mean, most of us are right? So why respond to this post in particular?

Well…idk, exactly. I could tell you I’m 5’10, Black, athletic and fit, with a wicked and sarcastic sense of humour, a love for pursuits people might call “nerdy” (whatever that means); gaming, art, chess, movies, philosophy, literature, mechanics, the list goes on and on - but also a simultaneous appreciation of the outdoors, sports and a bunch of physical activities, beside a heavy predilection towards the gym.

I could tell you that this is NOT my default mode of being. I’m fairly introspective, largely quietly observant, and almost self-detrimentally considerate - though I wouldn’t go so far as to say soft-spoken. I like to hold/open doors for strangers if their hands are full, I’ll help people find their way if they’re lost in the city, I’ll spring for someone’s coffee if they don’t have enough to pay at the cash. Small things, sure, it’s not worthy of sainthood or anything, but I like to think small kindnesses make people’s days.

I could tell you that I’m just an average, unique human, making his way through the world just like you are.

But the real reason you should respond, is because we both have dark and fairly taboo fantasies that we probably share, knocking around in the dim, dark recesses of our minds that we just can’t seem to get rid of. Choking. Slapping. Spanking. Hair-pulling. Facefucking. Degradation. Pinning someone down and taking what you want, when you want, how you want. Disciplining them when they resist or object. Hearing them beg/whimper and fight their basal instincts, struggling to resist the pleasure that floods through them in a moment where they have no control and no initiative. In a word (or acronym), CNC.

You should respond, because as much as it’s completely wrong, we both crave that sexual power dynamic, to indulge in it, to explore it, and to understand it - from a place of mutual respect, safety, familiarity, comfort, and maybe even some occasional light-heartedness (can’t take ourselves too seriously) with all requisite discussions, precautions and after measures taken. The ideal scenario involves a hotel room and just what it says in the title, but we can discuss it more through messages.

So if you’re curious about this side of yourself, or about me, let’s talk…Maybe we’ve each found our dark fantasies. And thanks, for reading so far down. Hit me with your favourite movie since you have, or are just looking for a place to start conversation.